Friday, June 5, 2015

Disclosure My Butt!

Ya know what I find incredibly sad? 

The fact that I have to censor myself because I am worried about people starting a huge argument and possibly offending people to the point where they don't want to even be friends anymore...and when I say "I", Im not speaking of just myself because I see it all over my newsfeed. People posting things they want to share with disclosures so as to not offend anyone or start a war. 


If you know me then you know that I am not one to fit in ANY mold. Every "clique" that I should be in (Soccer mom, christian, advocate...and those are just to name a few) but I don't fit into any of those. I am very proud to be a christian but for some reason that people think that makes me perfect. Being a sports mom of 6 kiddos means that I am supposed to have it all together and be prim and proper and have a Martha Stewart type home....and hey, because Im passionate about my beliefs, I won't even go through the stereotypes that are associated to me being an advocate. 

If you are still reading this, then you must like thank you :) but can I just be honest now? 

Im not perfect!! Being a Christian means that I am imperfect.....soo imperfect!! It also means that I believe my God loves me so much that He sent his Son to die so that my flaws could be forgiven and I could be made new. Each and every time I go to him in that Son's name, I am covered in the loving blanket of His blood. So...

Spoken by Jesus Christ himself....

So excuse me but back off!! 

And being a soccer mom to me, means that I love my kids enough to keep them active and out of as much trouble as I possibly can so that they can have a happy and fulfilling youth that leads to a successful adulthood. And my babies (adopted babies included) aren't perfect....Im the first to admit this BUT they are the best damn kids in the world! and I won't tag them because they will be all "another one of moms novels" but if you guys do happen to see this just let me say that I LOVE YOU ALL MORE THAN ANYTHING IN THIS WORLD AND I THINK YOU ARE PERFECT! FLAWS AND ALL!! IM GLAD THAT HE TRUSTED ME WITH YOU. 
umm and bringing that back down Ill say
Thanks for not expecting Martha Stewart. Thanks for loving my "queen of the hot n ready" mentality! Don't let anyone make you feel less than you are! if you still made it this impressed. 

Lastly, from here on out, Im going to say what I feel I want to say. Im going to let go of my censorship. I don't mean to offend anyone but the great thing about Facebook is that it has options to take me off of your newsfeed. You don't have to remove me from your friends list...although should you want to, thats your right (but you would miss me). If you remove me from your feed, you won't have to worry about seeing my posts unless you click on my profile. 

I don't want a fight from anyone...If you disagree with my opinions and beliefs then you are entitled to the right to disagree but lets agree to disagree and leave it at that. I only make up my mind after much thought and study on it. They are MY beliefs, MY actions, MY decisions and MY convictions, NOT yours and I am never going to try to push them on you, however, you're probably not gonna make me change my lets just leave it at